I don't think you have to have a language in common with someone to have sexual rapport. But it helps if the language you don't understand is Italian. I practically come listening to people speak Italian and I don't understand it that well. When they say, "Are you hungry? Let's go get some spaghetti," it sounds like they are coming on to you. It's really arousing. Sex can overcome the language barrier because it's all body language anyway. But it you're talking about having a long, meaningful relationship, forget it. I was rеally into this Italian guy and I had this fantasy about him. He lived in Rome with his mothеr. I sat there with a dictionary piecing together sentences and I finally realized that he was madly in love with me in three days and wanted me to stay in Italy and marry him and have a baby right away. That wasn't to appealing, but the sex was good. Sometimes when you can't speak it kind of frees you up. They're whispering all this shit in your ear and they could be talking about the theory of relativity for all you know. They could be calling you a cunt bitch whore from hell. They could be saying, "As soon as you come home I'm going to kill you," and you're yelling, "Yes! Yes!"