She asked me out
I thought there'd be no harm in taking
But soon her eyes
Would cut me like a piece of broken glass
And deep inside
I felt myself disintegrating
I then found out
What it's like to pay for someone's past

So, tell me who's to blame
For the pain you're giving me?
So, tell me who's to blame
Is it you or is it me?

We made love
At first it seemed like God was coaching
As time went on
It became a way to keep me in my place
No more respect
No more passion, no more lover's doubting
Two people cursed
So pissed and sad, it's written on their faces

So, tell me who's to blame
For the pain you're giving me?
So, tell me who's to blame
Is it you or is it me?
So, tell me who's to blame
For the pain you're giving me?
So, tell me who's to blame
Is it you or is it me?

I don't want to feel this way
But I can't stop fakin'
I can't stop feeling
I wish that things were right
I wanted to be with you
But I would never be enough
And you would never, ever let me be!
Yeah!

So, tell me who's to blame
For the pain you're giving me?
So, tell me who's to blame
Is it you or is it me?

So, tell me who's to blame
For the pain you're giving me?
So, tell me who's to blame
Was it you? Was it you?

So tell me who's to blame?
Was it you or was it me?