But duality is alwaysâsecretlyâunity. Take the contrast between the words we use: explicit and implicit. Theyâre very valuable words. What is explicit, whatâs on the outside, thatâs, say, how we come on publicallyâexplicitly we are thus and so. We have a fight. Weâre in competition, say, in business, explicitly. But implicitly, weâve worked this out: that weâve agreed, in a secret way that nobody knows about, that this competition is extremely valuable to both of us.
Take it politically, for example: letâs take the situation of Russia versus the United States. Explicitly, in public, this has to be a big fight. These two ways of life, these two ideologies, are opposed. They say, âBrrrrrraaaagh,â you know? But behind the scenes itâs all been carefully worked out. You bet it has. That this opposition has to happen because our economy depends on it, and their economy depends on it, and everybody knows this whoâs got a little smart. But there are a lot of people who get taken in by the propaganda, and they should be taken in, because that makes the thing work. Itâs crazy, but thatâs the way it goes.
And everything works this way. There is, for exampleâwhen swans start to mate, theyâre not sure what theyâre supposed to do, and they begin to fight. I had a long talk about this with C. G. Jung. He lived on the edge of Lake ZĂŒrich, and he had a little summer house right on the waterâs edge, and there were many swans there. And I was getting up after the end of a conversation with him, and we were beginning to walk back to the main house, and I said, âIsnât it true that swans are monogamous?â And he said, âYes, they are.â He said, âDo you know, I have had most interesting relationships between these swans and many of my female patients who thought they were homosexual.â I mean, Jung wasnât a sexual snobâI mean, he understood all the legitimacy of all kinds of sexual variationsâbut he said, âIt has been a point of departure for our discussionsâ. And he said, âItâs a very funny thing that, when they begin to mate, they start fighting. And they donât know what itâs all about, and then, suddenly, the fight turns into lovemaking.â
So thatâs what I mean. Underneath opposition there is love. Underneath duality thereâs unity. That Tweedledum and Tweedledee agreed to have a battle. So you see, hereâs that weaving principle. That things hold together by over-under, under-over, over-under, under-over, over-under, under-over, and that creates a stuff, it creates a fabric, it creates clothing, it creates shelter, it creates what we call matter. Matter. Mater. Mother. And also, the same word, mÄyÄ, âillusion.â See? The world as a marvelous illusion.
Now, weâve got to go into this. Look at another form of the thing: you can play it not only by two as one, but you can play it by three as one. You know the trademark for Ballantineâs Ale, which is three interlocked rings. Now, the way these rings are interlocked is such that they are joined only if the three of them are present. If you take one away, the other two fall apart. This is a very interesting phenomenon, but it can be created physically, with steel rings. Their cohesion depends on all three of them being present.