Now then, when you enter society you are born into a caste. And this is very understandable in a community where you donât have a generalized system of education. You donât go to school, and therefore you learn what to do in life from your parents and your family. So if you grow up as a carpenterâs son, it never occurs to you to do anything else but carpentry. Why would you? You might become a better carpenter than your fatherâbut still, that would be the natural thing to do. Itâs only when one is exposed to school, and then the people begin to talk about well, what do you want to be in life? The people get the idea that they might be anything. So if this sort of way of life is natural to you, you donât find it particularly objectionable. Of course, all kinds of weird complications and rituals and prohibitions grow up in the course of time that can make this system very cumbersome, as it has been until quite recently in India.
Then what happens is this: you go through an evolution in your development in this community, which hasâfirst of allâthe stage called brahmacharya: âstudentshipâ or âapprenticeship.â After that, you enter the stage of grÌ„hastha, meaning âhouseholder.â And a householder has two duties. One is called artha, and the other kama. Artha means the duties of citizenship; partaking in the political life of the community. Kama means the cultivation of the senses, of aesthetic and sensual beauty, and therefore kama includes the art of love, the arts of beautification, of dress, of cooking, and all that kind of thing. So that the kÄmasĆ«tra is the scripture about love. Kamaâin a senseâmeans âpassion,â and is the great Hindu manual of how to behave sexually. Itâs a book that every child ought to read on gaining puberty, so that he would get some sense of how to make love without being a mere baboon. Then there is also the arthaĆÄstra, and that is the scripture about rulers and the way of the kshatria caste.
Nowâso youâve got these stages now. Brahmacharya, which is studentship. Artha and kamaâthey go together, and they constitute the duties of grÌ„hastha, of the householder. Beyond that there is the duty of dharma, and dharma has many, many meanings in Sanskrit. It can mean something like âlawâ or âjustice.â It could even mean, slightly, ârighteousness,â but not as we have come to understand that word in common speech today. Perhaps ârightnessâ would be better than ârighteousness.â But dharma has a primary meaning of âmethod.â So when we speak of the dharma of the Buddha, the Buddhaâs doctrine, it is the Buddhaâs methodânot law. So, a citizen also has to conform to dharma. And, that is to say, to ritual and ethical and moral game rules for the community.
But now, when, in the course of time, he has established his household, he has taught his oldest son to take over the governorship of the household, the fatherâor, for that matter, motherâmay enter into a new stage of life altogether, which is not grÌ„hastha, but is called vanaprastha, and that means âforest dweller,â as distinct from âhouseholder.â
Now, you see whatâs happened? Weâve gone full cycle. We came out of the forest as a hunter, we settled in a community and indulged in what is calledâin Sanskritâlokasaáčgraha. Saáčgraha means âupholding,â loka âthe world.â âUpholding the world-game.â And that is everybodyâs dharma, or dutyâdharma can also be translated âduty.â And svadharma means âyour own duty,ââor better, âyour own functionââwhich we would translate into English as âvocation.â So everybodyâs castework is his svadharma, and of course these castes are subdivided into various other kinds of specializations.